What to wear to your bay area and sacramento engagement photos

One of the most common questions I get before an engagement shoot is: “What should we wear?” And honestly, I get it—these photos will live on your walls, your wedding website, and probably your save-the-dates. You want to look amazing, feel confident, and still feel like you.

So here’s your go-to guide for what to wear for your engagement session, straight from a professional photographer’s perspective.

1. Coordinate, Don’t Match

You don’t need to wear the same color or outfit—but you should aim for complementary tones. Think in terms of a color palette: soft neutrals, earth tones, pastels, or jewel tones work beautifully. Avoid clashing patterns or neon colors that can distract from your connection.

2. Stick to Timeless Over Trendy

These photos will be around long after TikTok trends fade. Go for classic pieces that won’t look dated in a few years. A flowy dress, a well-fitted blazer, or a button-up shirt never goes out of style.

3. Dress for the Location & Season

Are we shooting on a beach at golden hour? Think breezy, barefoot, and sun-kissed. In the forest or mountains? Layers, boots, and cozy textures. Let the setting inspire your outfits so you look naturally at home in the space.

4. Bring Two Outfits (Optional but Fun!)

One dressy and one casual gives you variety in your gallery. Maybe a romantic maxi dress for one look and jeans with a cute top for the other. It also helps if you’re torn between styles.

5. Choose Clothes That Move Well

Flowy fabrics photograph beautifully, especially in motion or wind. If your dress or top sways with your movement, it adds a dreamy, romantic feel to the photos.

6. Avoid Distracting Prints and Logos

Busy patterns can steal focus and large logos can feel out of place. Solid colors or subtle prints tend to work best, especially when paired with texture like linen, knit, or denim.

7. Pay Attention to Footwear

Your shoes should fit the location and your style. Heels might look great but not if we’re walking through sand or a forest trail. Bring backups just in case!

8. Style Hair & Makeup a Bit More Than Usual

You don’t need to go full glam (unless you want to!), but a little extra polish helps the camera pick up your features. Some couples also use this shoot as a hair or makeup trial for the wedding day.

9. Bring Accessories or Layers

A hat, scarf, jacket, or statement earrings can help you switch things up without a full outfit change. They also add visual interest to your photos.

10. Be Yourself—Just a Bit Elevated

Wear something you feel amazing in. If you’re uncomfortable, it’ll show. Choose outfits that feel like a more polished version of your everyday style, so your confidence shines through.

Bonus Tip: When in doubt, I’m happy to help you decide! I’ve helped so many couples choose outfits that photograph beautifully. You can even send me a few options and I’ll give you honest, professional feedback before our shoot.

Still looking for the perfect place to take your engagement photos? I’ve got a list of dreamy spots all around the Bay Area, from golden beaches to redwood groves. Reach out and let’s plan something magical.