Cottage Core Engagement Photoshoot in the Bay Area
We aren’t gate-keeping anything here! We are giving away exact location, outfit inspo, planning details, and even the exact photographer for this San Francisco Bay Area Engagement photoshoot!
Location
We met up at Coyote Hills Regional park located in the East Bay. Coyote Hills does have a closing time, at dusk, however you are able to exit shortly after closing over the no backing security grate. We specifically met at the Coyote Hills Visitor Center just before the Quail Trail and walked over to the board walk just off of the Chochenyo Trail. There is a wide variety of trails for different views from green and gold hill top views of Autumnal looking boardwalk surrounded by the golden cattails. No matter where you choose to shoot, you will have an amazing view of the hills and water in the distance. There are also public restrooms available that are open until closing time, which varies depending on the seasonn
Outfits
The couple chose to wear cottage core themed outfits. The corset top Is from Cider, but there are also similar options on Amazon. The dress and Menswear are also all from amazon and Renn Fair shops. Our photographer also has many options available for rent for your photoshoot!
Photographer
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Christmas Themed Wedding Insperation
Now is the time to start planning your December 2025 and early 2026 weddings! And since we are starting planning our winter weddings, I thought I should share this Christmas themed wedding that I photographed this last Christmas!
The couple
Grace and Malia met through friends and instantly had a connection. Grace describes Malia as the “always calm” person in the room. While Malia Describes Grace as loving and kind. Their friendship and love grew through their friend group’s game nights until one day, they decided it was time for something more.
The Details
All florals and greenery were done by Janet’s Flowers in Modesto.
The Venue is “The Wedding Chapel” which is owned and run by Janet’s Flowers in Modesto.
Wedding and Engagement Photographer: Alexandria’s Photography and on instagram
Makeup, decor, etc was done by the bride’s and their friends and family.
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Finding a Graduation photographer for your Highschool or college senior
Finding the perfect photographer for your senior can be super difficult with the wide variety of price points, and packages! California and Hawaii are especially difficult with the density of photographers! So I will go over everything from prices to deliverables and legalities for you to think about when it comes to booking your senior photographer!
.1 Price Points
Many Senior portrait sessions pricing is based off a combination of number of locations, outfits, hours in front of the camera, and your photographers personal experience and ability!
$50-$100: typically a very new photographer with little to no experience. This photographer will more than likely not have contracts, insurance, or a concrete booking plan
$100-$300: This photographer is usually a bit more established and perhaps a bit more polished in their work and their pricing may not necessarily reflect the quality of their work, rather their experience and professionability… but not always. This is still not a livable wage for most photographers so it is usually a side gig price point!
$300-$800: This is a pretty average price range for a wide range of established and talented photographers who are going to be generous!
$800+: More than likely, you are receiving a luxury photography experience and are working with a real pro!! But, be sure to see their portfolio; work that they did themselves to ensure that you will be receiving the best of the best!
.2 Contracts
This is a more difficult subject to cover, as every photographer has a slightly different contract, but here are some things to look out for in contracts.
Make sure they have a contract, if they don’t this could be a major red flag, because the photographer should be educated on this subject and want to protect you and themselves!
contract should inlclude what you are receiving and how much it will be. You should only pay for what is laid out in the contract, this includes possible charges for last minute add on’s like additional hours if they are willing, and everything you are getting like a proofing gallery, number of finished images, time in front of the camera, number of outfits and locations, and if there are any physical prints included
there should be a cancellation and re-scheduling policy
there should be a refund policy
.3 Portfolio
A Photographer MUST have a portfolio and should know the difference between a portfolio and inspiration board and inspo pics. They should be able to provide a website, instagram, or Facebook link to showcase their work or, all three!!!
.4 The Dreaded Call
Once you have reviewed your photographer’s portfolio and website, it’s time to schedule a call! UGH! I know, so scary! But, if they are the right photographer to you, they will not make this scary! They will make it fun and full of information for you to decide on them! If they are unwilling to hop on some sort of call, they may be a scammer!
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Best places to view the Golden Gate Bridge + best times to view the Golden Gate
Today you will get the best locations to view the Golden Gate Bridge, learn about the best times to view the Golden Gate, find cool food and beverage spots around these locations, maps links, and a bonus!
Locations
Tourist Favorites
Some tourist favorite spots to view the Golden Gate Bridge and are budget friendly are going to be spots like:
H. Dana Bowers Rest Area which is located on the edge of the Golden Gate Bridge right outside Sausalito, just minutes from San Francisco. This spot is great if you are on the road and visiting multiple locations. you can park, use the bathroom, and look out at the bridge!
Crissy Field, a popular spot that includes a great area to walk, visitor center, bathrooms, beach, and more!
Battery Lancaster: This is a great spot even if you aren’t a tourist, it includes educational content, a great coffee spot, and walking/hiking trails!
Local Favorites
These local favorite spots are hidden gems and are great for viewing the Golden Gate Bridge if you have some time to spare!
The Wave Organ: This spot is really unique in that it is also a rock sculpture that provides great photo ops, views of the Golden Gate Bridge and the San Francisco Bay. You will be right outside the Golden Gate Yacht Club and surrounded by yachts, sail, and other boats for your viewing pleasure!
Perles Beach and point knox on Angel Island: This little island provides great hiking, 360 views of the bay, and a great full view of the Golden Gate Bridge. you can take the Blue & Gold Ferry, from the Tiburon Ferry Terminal on the north side of the bridge out to the island
China Beach: this beach has a great walk up and down and, despite all the stairs, it is wheel chair accessable with a long ramp down to the main building and a ramp down to the beach from that. There is free parking, but spotty service, and only port-a-potties, but this spot is well worth it and one of my personal favorites to visit.
Close up views
If you want to get up close and personal with the bride, visit these cool spots
Fort Point National Historic Site
Lookout Cove and Fort Baker Pier
Hendrik Point
Walk the Golden Gate Bridge
Food and Beverage
If you are visiting San Francisco and the Golden Gate Bride, you will need a place to grab food and coffee, here are a few of my personal favorite spots in the area!
Equater Coffee at the round House Cafe
Cliff House
Cafe De Casa
Golden Link Concessionaire is great because it’s super convenient and in the epicenter of the Golden Gate Viewpoints!
When to visit for best conditions
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How to find your wedding vendors; 5 questions to ask the pro’s
Finding your vendors can be really hard when planning your wedding! Especially in diverse areas like the Bay Area! So here are my top 5 tips to finding the right vendors for you as a long time wedding and event photographer!
Ask about their website
Most professional wedding vendors will have a website filled with all kinds of information including reviews from past clients, their booking process, package deals, and info abut themselves for you to get comfortable with them as your vendor! My website even includes a photo of myself, so you know who to look for, a blog page like this one to help you learn and save, and more! If they don’t have a website, this doesn’t mean that they are not a real or trustworthy vendor, you will just have to ask for more resources like instagram and Facebook pages to see their reviews
2. Ask about their business License and Insurance
I highly recommend booking vendors who are liscenced and insured! Insurance is not expensive and does not require a business liscnece to get, just a fictitious business name, so, If they don’t have either of these, it may be your first red flag! Alexandria’s Photography is both licensed and insured to make sure that there are no bumps in your booking process and to ensure your money is going to a real small business!
3. Ask to hop On a call or video call
One thing I ALWAYS do to make my clients feel comfortable is to hop on a Zoom call with them before they even send over their first payment to book me as their photographer! I do this to create trust, get to know each other, feel out each others vibes, and to more easily answer questions and show real examples through the screen sharing feature so that my clients know I am real, trustworthy, and worth their money!
4. Ask about hourly rates and minimums
Not every pre-made package is for every couple, and that’s okay! Many vendors, like myself, are always open to creating custom packages and catering to your unique needs, we often just have a minimum hourly or dollar point minimum to ensure that we are able to best serve you!
5. Ask about tolerance
This sounds really weird, but It is really important to get to know what each vendor supports, tolerates, or are allies of. If they are not respectful of your religion, culture, or even sexual preference, this may be problematic for your wedding day! And, just because your photographer is a different religion, ethnicity, culture, or color than you also doesn’t mean that they don’t support you or are not an ally to you! For example, I am a non-practicing christian and believe in God, But I am also a Gay and POC ally!
6. Bonus: Contracts and more
Contracts are incredibly important and as a wedding photographer for over 10 years and having worked with third party companies, I know how important contracts are, and I would never personally book a vendor of any kind without some sort of written agreement or contract.
Contracts protect everyone involved and lay out everything from service provided to price point and overtime pay and travel expenses. Every vendor will have different agreements or policies for their business and it is important that their policies align with your own.
It is also important to realize that these vendors do this for a living and need to charge a livable wage for themselves and if they have employees or freelancers working for them.
On top of that, these vendors should be able to clarify their policies to you and answer any questions you may have about them in a kind and professional manner.
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Alternative Reception Venue & Theme
Riley & Wade had an elegant ceremony at the palace of fine arts. Their theme was a night at the disco and they pulled through!
Venue
This retro reception was held at Bimbos 365 club in San Francisco, just a few minute drive from the Palace of fine arts and in a comfortable part of town!
Want to hit up another bar after your club reception? La Rocca’s bar is less than a block away with no turns!
Dinner
Riley and Wade opted for a chill dinner reception with pizza, beer, and signature cocktails.
The pizza was ordered from a local deep dish pizzeria.
Music
Riley and Wade danced the night away to a live band covering the 70’s through the 90’s and winded down with one of the Best DJ’s I’ve ever seen!
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International Women’s Day 2025: Mermaid Photoshoot
Every year, a week before international women’s day, I put on a mermaid photoshoot. I invite local Bay Area women to participate and give away 5 slots for free. Check out this years photos and mood board.
Mood Board
The theme is mermaid swimwear. Mixing salmons, pinks, tans, browns, and greens for an oceanic and natural vibe.
Mermaid photoshoot mood board and color pallet for International Women’s Day 2025
Grad Photos at Stanford’s Arizona Garden
This last spring, I was able to help out Michael in getting some graduation and modeling photos to start off his career at the Arizona Garden on the Stanford campus! Here are some things to know about this location:
Parking
Parking is extremely limited and is paid Monday through Friday during business hours. After hours and on weekends, there is free parking at a Stanford facility close by, less than a half mile away and very walkable as there are no steps and almost no incline or decline. The walk over can be hot on late spring and summer days as it is in direct sunlight.
Park Conditions
This park is super cute, one of the larger cactus gardens in the area, free to access, and surrounded by other beautiful parts of the campus including statues, the Stanford Family Moselium, and so much more! This area is clean and safe. It is pet and child friendly and often very quiet and serene. There are many people accessing this area including photographers, families, students studying, etc, so please be respectful of how loud you are where. There is also wildlife as this is a large and very green campus, you will see everything from birds and squirrels to the possibility of other small hunting animals and prey like rabbits. Due to this, it is important that you clean up after yourself and leave the area better than you found it! Do not feed the animals, as this can create a dangerous relationship and expectation between the animals who live in the area and other human visitors.
When To Visit
Of course, the free parking will promote weekend visits, But I would suggest parking a bit aways and Ubering in on week days to avoid crowds. Avoid holiday weekends or weekdays as many students will have off and will be more likely to be roaming around the larger parts of the campus. I have gone at all times of day and all days of the week, and all of them have been pleasant visits even when busy!
Plants and Wildlife
like I mentioned before, you will more than likely see an array of animals like rabbits, black squirrels, stray cats, and the possibility of other carnivorous mammals. Do not approach the animals as it could be harmful to you and the wildlife. You are less likely to see the larger animals as they tend to avoid people and this being a busy spot, they will try to avoid you, but if you do, please be respectful and give them space and never feed them.
There are a lot of different succulents and other desert plants in the Arizona Garden at Stanford. Many of these are very sharp and different sized and variations of cacti that can be dangerous, especially if you have young and exploring children, or children who are not inclined to listen! I have pricked myself a time or two trying to get “THE SHOT!”
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San Francisco Beach Wedding
A Perfect Harmony: A Beach and Garden Wedding with a Musical Theater Theme
When it comes to weddings, few things are as magical as blending the natural beauty of a beach and garden setting with the vibrant energy of musical theater. Recently, I had the honor of capturing a wedding that did just that—creating a day filled with love, joy, and theatrical flair. Set against the stunning backdrop of the ocean and a serene garden, this wedding was a true celebration of not only the couple’s love for each other but also their shared passion for the arts.
The Setting: A Tale of Two Beautiful Locations
The day began at a tranquil beach, where the couple exchanged their vows surrounded by the soothing sounds of the ocean and the soft embrace of the sand. The foggy, misty morning added an ethereal quality to the ceremony, creating a romantic and intimate atmosphere that was simply unforgettable. The bride, dressed in a flowing off-the-shoulder gown, looked like she had stepped straight out of a fairytale, while the groom’s laid-back elegance perfectly complemented the relaxed vibe of the beach.
Following the beach ceremony, the celebration moved to a lush garden where guests were treated to a reception that seamlessly blended nature with the dramatic flair of musical theater. The garden’s vibrant greenery and the intimate, cozy setup made it the perfect location for the couple to celebrate with their loved ones. The contrast between the beach’s expansive, open space and the garden’s intimate setting created a dynamic and balanced flow to the day’s events.
The Theme: A Nod to Musical Theater
From the moment guests arrived, it was clear that this wedding was something special. The couple, both passionate about musical theater, incorporated subtle yet meaningful nods to their favorite shows throughout the day.
The bride’s entrance was nothing short of theatrical, with a soundtrack that paid homage to classic musicals, setting the tone for the rest of the day. Their vows, filled with lyrics and quotes from beloved musicals, added a personal and heartfelt touch to the ceremony. The couple’s love for the arts was evident in every detail, making the wedding not just a celebration of their union, but also a reflection of the creative passion that brought them together.
The Details: Capturing the Magic
Every detail of the day was carefully considered to create a harmonious blend of romance, nature, and theater. The bride’s bouquet, made up of wildflowers and roses, mirrored the natural beauty of the surroundings while also adding a pop of color to the soft, neutral tones of the beach. The groom’s boutonniere, a delicate arrangement of blooms and greenery, tied in perfectly with the theme.
The reception was a continuation of the couple’s love story, with tables named after iconic musicals and a playlist that kept the energy high and the dance floor full. The cake, decorated with music notes and a quote from their favorite show, was both a feast for the eyes and a sweet tribute to their shared passion.
One of the most touching moments of the day was the couple’s first dance, set to a song from a musical that holds special meaning for them. The joy and love between them were palpable as they danced under the stars, surrounded by their closest friends and family.
The Photography: Telling a Story of Love and Art
As a photographer, my goal was to capture not just the events of the day, but the emotion and connection that made this wedding so unique. The images from the beach ceremony are filled with the soft, romantic tones of the misty morning, highlighting the couple’s deep connection and the intimate atmosphere of their vows.
In contrast, the garden reception photos are vibrant and full of life, capturing the joy and celebration that followed. From candid shots of guests laughing and dancing to quiet moments of the couple stealing a kiss under a tree, every image tells a part of the story of their day.
The details of the musical theater theme are woven throughout the images, from close-ups of the cake and table settings to wide shots of the beautifully decorated garden. These photos not only document the day but also serve as a lasting reminder of the love and creativity that went into making this wedding truly one-of-a-kind.
Conclusion: A Wedding in Perfect Harmony
This beach and garden wedding with a musical theater theme was a celebration of love, creativity, and the joy that comes from sharing your passions with the person you love. The combination of natural beauty and theatrical flair made for a day that was as unique as it was unforgettable.
If you’re planning a wedding and looking for ways to incorporate your own passions and interests into your special day, I’d love to help you bring your vision to life. Whether it’s a beachside ceremony, a garden reception, or a theme that’s close to your heart, let’s create something beautiful together that tells your love story in the most authentic way possible.
What to wear to your Grad Photoshoot
Theme
Depending on your own style and desired outcome of your photos, you might want to consider a theme. Maybe the theme is to match the colors of your cool vintage car or matching to your location or even school’s mascot or colors.
For example, if you want a really girly or dreamy theme, you might want to consider long flowy dresses, pastel colors, and accessorizing with dainty jewlery.
If you want a vintage theme think about the era you want to represent and brint the colors and styles into your wardrobe like bell bottom jeans and a brown shirt or a crochet dress matched with knee high boots and a flower crown.
School Colors
You may want to consider dressing in your school colors or complimentary colors to your school colors.
A complimentary color is typically the colors on either side of the main color or directly across from it. You can also go monochrome: wearing different shades of the same color. If your school color is mainly green you could go with a green dress or green cargo pants and a matching shirt or black shirt… kinda like Kimpossible…
Location
When thinking about what exactly to wear you may want to first decide on where you want your photos to be taken and come up with an outfit for each location.
If you are standing in front of a statue of your schools mascot, you may want to wear your letterman jacket or dress in your schools sports attire. If you’re in a nice park you may want to wear a sundress or your favorite pair of jeans and a crisp white t-shirt. On the beach you may want to wear a button up with the sleeves rolled up and a pair of jeans or a flowy dress.
Cap and gown
Your cap and gown can be a great accessory or add on to any outfit! If you have a black cap and gown, then you are lucky! If you have a different color, you may want to go back and look at the school colors section and think about complimentary colors or monochrome.
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Beach Photoshoot outfits; Where to shop and how to prep
After having lead and photographed many beach swimwear photoshoots, I have learned what to wear, where to buy it, and how to prep for beach photoshoots, especially in the Bay Area!
What to wear
Figuring out what to wear to your photoshoot can be really hard! Here are some things I like to consider when planning a photoshoot and what to wear:
Decide how much skin you are comfortable showing
figure out your body shape to decide on a cut that will be most flattering on you
Choose colors that look best on you; brighten your face and flatter your skintone
ONLY wear something you are comfortable and feel good in!
I have photographed many women in all sorts of outfits on the beach! Everything from lingerie to long flowy dresses! It’s up to you and your comfort level! If a photographer is pushing you to do anything you are comfortable with, they are not the right photographer for you!
Where to buy it
Finding the best outfit for you can be super hard! But I have a few favorite places to buy swimwear, dresses, and beach items to make your photoshoot and beach experience even better!
Pink Blush
Pink Blush is a brand I will always reccomend! They have a lot of flowy dress options in a large range of sizes and styles including maternity and plus size!
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That Beachy Photographer
This may be obvious, or not, but I also have a wide variety of swimwear, beach accessories, towels, and bags available for purchase! Many of these items are made of recycled material and designed by me! Just visit the Beach Shop!
How to prep
Prepping for a beach photoshoot can be confusing. You don’t want to bring too much or too little! So here are some of my best tips for beach photoshoots, weather that be a sexy swimwear shoot or an engagement or maternity photoshoot!
Bring extra Towels
towels can easily be washed! You can pack extras in your car and use to wipe off your feet and body before hopping in the car
towels can be used to create a privacy screen for easy changing so you don’t have to step on a bathroom floor, or if there is no bathroom available!
Go bra-less and wear loose clothing; this might sound weird, but if you are showing a lot of skin it could be really important
bras create strap line and indents in your skin
this also goes for any elastic bands or tight clothing that you might want to wear on the way to your photoshoot! It's better not to risk weird lines on your skin for your photoshoot unless you are more covered!
bring/wear layers
bring layers to throw on or take off!
moving around during your photoshoot will make you warmer than expected, so you may want to wear lighter clothing and layers so you can be comfortable
bring water and snacks
While I always try to bring extra water, you may also want to bring your own so you can stay hydrated during your photoshoot
you will be moving a lot more than you expect and using muscles you aren’t used to utilizing, so you might want to bring snacks for after your photoshoot so you can re-fuel!
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Best Online Maternity Store + Discount code!
As a photographer, I have to know where to get the best outfits for both my clients and my client closet. Most people want to order off sites like Amazon, Cider, or other popular apps. These retailers are awesome, but the sizing is often different based off brand, item, etc. But no worries! I found the perfect Maternity store with non-maternity items, plus, I have a discount code for you! On top of that, This store has everything from photoshoot outfits to more casual items like swimwear!
I have purchased a lot of dresses, outerwear, and accessories to add to my client closet, but none of them were as durable and timeless as Pink Blush’s beautiful dresses! Pink Blush carries both maternity and every day clothes! But I am especially a fan of their maternity photoshoot and event dresses and outfits! An, no, They don’t just carry pink and blush toned dresses! Pink blush also carries plus size options for most styles!
On top of absolutely LOVING their dresses, I also have a discount code for you! Use code: thatbeachyphotographer25 for 25% off any order!
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Portrait and Fantasy Photography in San Francisco California
California is filled with hidden gems in the most unexpected places. However, driving through Atherton and Menlo Park among the beautiful giant houses and tree lined streets you just know that there are some good spots there! And there is, you just have to explore a little! Continue on to see where exactly I took these photos and one of my favorite Bay Area parks!
“ I always have to have a few warm up photos to really get started, the first 10 poses usually have to be scrapped, so if you’re a photographer too, I always suggest going back to the same poses later and trying them again once everyone is warmed up!”
As some of you know, I have been a photographer for over ten years! And while I have gained sooo much knowledge, it is important to continuously expand my knowledge and intentionally improve my craft. So… I have taken art, graphic design, and photography classes. This has helped me to redefine my own editing and photography style in a way that I am actually really proud of!
This assignment was to shoot in the style of another photographer…. and of course I did the assignment, taking insporation from Irene Rudnyk…. But I think I strayed a little by going so cottage core!
The model, Tyra, is a good friend of mine, so it was really easy to get warmed up. And while I say that, I also have to admit that even then, I always have to have a few warm up photos to really get started, the first 10 poses usually have to be scrapped, so if you’re a photographer too, I always suggest going back to the same poses later and trying them again once everyone is warmed up!
I am pretty familiar with Holbrook - Palmer Park , which is just outside Menlo Park in the city of Atherton. This is a quiet and safe neighborhood on the peninsula of the San Francisco Bay Area. The park is cute with yearly and seasonal flowers and other plants. There is a play structure for bigger kids and a toddler play structure as well, so the entire family can have a lot of fun!
Because I was familiar with this park, we were able to get a lot of variety in backgrounds and foregrounds, But there is one little area with these pretty blue flowers on a giant bush that I just love so much in the center of the park, right next to the day care building.
Holbrook - Palmer park also has event spacing with art and historic photos covering the walls, wood flooring, and even a fire place. Although, I’m not sure if you can use the fireplace. This would be a beautiful event space, or even a wonderful location for your wedding!
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How to plan your surprise proposal
Planning your proposal is difficult! You want it to be a surprise but keeping it a surprise is one of the hardest things. Your partner knows you so well and lying isn’t your thing! So here are some of my favorite tips on how to propose and keep it a secret!
Step 1.
Decide on a proposal date
Deciding on a date might feel daunting, but trust me, it’s not. It is, however, really important!
Key reasons to plan the date out ahead of time:
You will have time to hire a photographer if you like
You are giving yourself time to pick out rings/find the very best one
You can plan on proposing on a special date
You have time to make reservations if needed
You can scope out the perfect location
Perhaps you already have the perfect date and location in mind, you will still need to figure out booking your photographer, how to do it, ask off work if necessary. There is obviously even more reasons to pick a date ahead of time and I’m sure you could think of more!
Step 2.
Picking a location to propose
I think this one is probably obvious to you, but let’s go over it anyway!
How to pick out your location:
Think of spots your partner particularly loves
Think of spots that are important to the two of you, weather it be your first date location or a spot you two love to visit often
Where does your partner love to visit? The beach, a particular park, or even a state?
A beautiful place your partner has been begging to go to!
Step 3.
Picking the right ring to propose
This is definitely something I think you should be thinking about for as long as you know that you want to marry the person you’re with! The reason being that you can start to get an idea for the type of ring they might like to have long before you even propose and therefore making it a bit easier to keep it a secret that you are going to propose. Make sure that rings are a regular topic, it’s good for your partner to know you’re interested in marrying them anyway!
Questions to ask:
What materials/color metals does your love like? Gold, rose gold, Silver, or something less traditional
What cut(s) do they like for the stone?
What type of stone do they want; a traditional diamond, their birth stone, or something different?
Do they like simple or intricate?
What style do they like: modern, vintage, art deco, etc?
Do they want something big or dainty?
Step 4.
Hiring vendors for your engagement
Maybe you have thought of some of these ideas, maybe you haven’t, either way here’s a list of ideas and vendors for you to check out!
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Beach wedding: What to Wear as the Groom
A Groom's Guide to Wedding Attire: What to Wear on Your Big Day
Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life, and how you present yourself is a key part of making the day memorable. While much attention is often given to the bride’s dress, the groom’s attire is equally important. Whether you're having a beach ceremony, a black-tie event, or something in between, what you wear should reflect both your personal style and the overall vibe of the wedding. Here’s a guide to help you choose the perfect outfit for your big day.
1. Consider the Wedding Theme and Venue
The first step in deciding what to wear is to consider the overall theme and location of your wedding. Your attire should complement the setting and formality of the event. Here’s how to match your outfit to different wedding types:
Beach Wedding: For a relaxed, beachside ceremony, lightweight fabrics like linen or cotton are ideal. A light-colored suit or even a pair of tailored shorts with a crisp shirt can look stylish and appropriate. Consider going without a tie for a more casual look, and opt for loafers or even barefoot sandals if you’re on the sand.
Formal Wedding: If your wedding is a black-tie or formal affair, a classic tuxedo is a must. Stick to traditional colors like black or midnight blue, paired with a white dress shirt and a black bow tie. Patent leather shoes and cufflinks will complete the look, adding an elegant touch.
Rustic or Outdoor Wedding: For a rustic or garden wedding, a tweed or wool suit in earthy tones like brown, green, or gray can be a great choice. Pair it with a patterned tie or bow tie to add some personality. Don’t forget about footwear—boots or brogues can work well in this setting.
Casual or Boho Wedding: For a more laid-back or bohemian wedding, consider a tailored suit in a light fabric like cotton or linen, or even a well-fitted vest with dress pants. You can play with colors and patterns, perhaps opting for a pastel suit or a floral tie to reflect the relaxed vibe.
2. Choose the Right Fit
No matter what style of suit or attire you choose, the fit is crucial. A well-fitted suit can make a huge difference in your overall appearance and comfort on your wedding day. Here’s what to look for:
Jacket: The shoulders should fit snugly but comfortably, with the seams sitting right at the edge of your shoulders. The jacket should taper slightly at the waist to create a flattering silhouette.
Pants: Your pants should sit comfortably at your waist without needing a belt to hold them up. The length should break just above your shoes for a clean, modern look.
Shirt: Ensure your dress shirt fits well around the neck without being too tight, and that the sleeves end just above your wrist, allowing a bit of cuff to show under your jacket.
Consider getting your suit tailored or custom-made for the perfect fit, especially if you’re opting for a more formal or traditional look.
3. Coordinate with the Bride and Wedding Party
While your attire should reflect your style, it’s also important to coordinate with your bride and the wedding party to ensure a cohesive look. Here are some tips:
Color Coordination: Choose colors that complement the bride’s dress and the overall color scheme of the wedding. If the bridesmaids are wearing a specific color, consider incorporating a similar shade into your tie, pocket square, or boutonniere.
Matching the Groomsmen: Decide whether you want to match your groomsmen exactly or differentiate your outfit slightly. As the groom, you might choose a different tie, a unique boutonniere, or a slightly different shade of suit to stand out while still coordinating with the wedding party.
4. Accessorize Thoughtfully
The right accessories can elevate your wedding day look and add a touch of personality. Here are some key accessories to consider:
Tie or Bow Tie: Whether you choose a traditional tie or a bow tie, make sure it complements your suit and the overall style of the wedding. You can opt for classic colors or patterns, or choose something bolder if it fits your personality.
Pocket Square: A pocket square adds a dash of sophistication to your look. Choose a color or pattern that complements your tie or adds a bit of contrast.
Boutonniere: A small flower or boutonniere pinned to your lapel can tie your look into the wedding theme and coordinate with the bride’s bouquet.
Cufflinks: If you’re wearing a formal shirt with French cuffs, cufflinks are a must. They’re a great opportunity to add a personal touch—consider using custom cufflinks that reflect your hobbies, interests, or initials.
Watch: A classic wristwatch is a timeless accessory for your wedding day. Choose a watch that’s elegant and matches the formality of your attire.
5. Consider the Weather
The weather can play a big role in your comfort on your wedding day, especially if you’re having an outdoor or beach wedding. Here’s how to prepare:
Warm Weather: For hot climates, opt for lighter fabrics like linen or cotton and lighter colors that reflect the sun. Consider going without a jacket or choosing a short-sleeved shirt to stay cool.
Cool Weather: If your wedding is during cooler months, consider layering with a waistcoat or choosing a suit in a heavier fabric like wool. Don’t forget to bring an overcoat or jacket for outdoor photos or events.
Rain: If there’s a chance of rain, be prepared with an umbrella or a water-resistant overcoat. Make sure your shoes are weather-appropriate to avoid soggy feet.
6. Don't Forget Grooming and Final Touches
Looking your best on your wedding day isn’t just about what you wear—it’s also about how you present yourself. Here are some final grooming tips:
Hair: Get a fresh haircut a week before the wedding, giving it time to settle but still look sharp. On the day of the wedding, style your hair with a product that will hold up throughout the day.
Facial Hair: Whether you’re clean-shaven or rocking a beard, make sure your facial hair is well-groomed. Consider a professional shave or trim the day before to ensure a polished look.
Skin Care: Hydrate your skin leading up to the wedding, and consider using a light moisturizer or a matte powder on the day to avoid any unwanted shine in photos.
Conclusion
Choosing what to wear on your wedding day is an opportunity to express your style while honoring the significance of the occasion. By considering the theme, location, and fit, and coordinating with the wedding party, you’ll look and feel your best as you stand at the altar. Remember, your attire should not only be stylish but also comfortable, allowing you to fully enjoy every moment of your special day.
Whether you’re going for a classic tuxedo, a relaxed beach ensemble, or something uniquely you, the key is to wear it with confidence. Ready to finalize your wedding day look? Let’s work together to make sure you’re dressed to impress as you embark on this new chapter of your life!
Choosing your proposal location: Beaches
Your nor-cal and bay area guide to choosing the best beach for you to propose to the love of your life at. Great for those silicon valley guys who have only one hiking spot and spend the rest of their time watching the stock markets or rock climbing at the gym. All these locations are available on your google or apple maps by searching the title!
Step 1.
Determine what type of beach location you want.
surrounded by forest
rock formations
views of the golden gate bridge
a spot that’s special to the two of you
board walk vibes
local favorite
sand for miles
Step 2.
Pick your date
Choosing the holidays, spring, or summer can really change how each of these locations look!
Holidays and winter provide a more dramatic vibe with the constant overcast weather, but is great for the artsy couple or great for making the holidays even more special
late spring: great for the super bloom that happens throughout california, weather is a bit more unpredictable, but the flowers are worth it!
late summer has beatiful sunsets and the most golden golden hours
Step 3.
Pick your photographer.
Here’s my guide to choosing the right photographer.
Or book your engagement session now!
locations
San Francisco
China Beach
China Beach in San Francisco is a great proposal location because it has a view of the golden gate bridge, a mini hike, rock formations to hide next to or behind if you don’t want an audience, free parking, and is a location mostly known by locals, so you won’t have tourists photobombing you every two seconds!
My recommendation is to walk down the stairs and head to the left as you’re facing the water and head down the wooden stairs that lead to the beach. If you don’t want to risk getting wet, there is a rooftop overlooking the water and golden gate bridge just above the old restrooms and info center. It’s pretty obvious, it’s a white building down the first set of stairs.
Fort Funston
This is a free location as well with a large parking lot, views of coastal flowers, and cliff side views of the ocean. If you can handle the steep route down and back up, I highly recommend going down to the beach, which is miles long and great for a mini adventure.
Half Moon Bay Area
Half Moon Bay State Beach (Francis Beach Camp Ground Parking)
This location has miles of beach to walk, multiple restrooms, and lots of parking. If you don’t mind walking you can park down the road, if you want a little less of a walk, there is $10 parking close to the restrooms and right in front of the beach entrance! Plus there are small cliff side views and mountains in the distance!
Pacifica Municipal Pier and Mori Point
You can aim for one or the other, but the two are a great romantic combo! Mori point in the spring is a great uphill hike that leads to a super bloom overlooking the water.
The entire area has a very board walk vibe without the crowds.
On the pier, you will find fishermen passed sunset, but they will encourage you to have fun, play music for you, and and cheer you on when you propose or even kiss!
What to Wear to a Beach Wedding
What to Wear to a Beach Wedding: A Guide for Guests
Receiving an invitation to a beach wedding is always exciting—there’s something magical about celebrating love with the sun, sand, and sea as the backdrop. But when it comes to deciding what to wear, guests often find themselves wondering how to strike the perfect balance between looking stylish and staying comfortable in the beach environment. Here’s your ultimate guide to choosing the right attire for a beach wedding, ensuring you look fabulous while respecting the laid-back vibe of the seaside setting.
1. Understand the Dress Code
Before you start planning your outfit, it’s important to check the wedding invitation or website for any specific dress code instructions. Beach weddings can range from casual to semi-formal or even formal, so knowing the expected attire will help you make the right choice. Here are some common dress codes and what they mean:
Casual: Think sundresses for women and light linen pants or shorts with a button-down shirt for men. Footwear can be sandals or even barefoot, depending on the venue.
Beach Formal: For women, this could mean a more elegant sundress, maxi dress, or a chic cocktail dress. Men might opt for a lightweight suit or dress pants with a collared shirt. Dressy sandals or wedges for women and loafers or dress shoes for men are appropriate.
Semi-Formal: Women can wear a flowy cocktail dress or a dressy jumpsuit, while men should consider a lightweight suit or dress pants with a blazer. Heels may sink in the sand, so choose wedges or dressy flats.
2. Choose Breathable Fabrics
The beach environment calls for breathable, lightweight fabrics that will keep you cool and comfortable. Look for materials like cotton, linen, chiffon, and silk blends that allow air to circulate and won’t cling to your skin in the heat.
Avoid heavy fabrics like wool, satin, or velvet, as these can be uncomfortable in warm, humid conditions. Instead, opt for fabrics that move with you and feel light against your skin, ensuring you stay cool while looking effortlessly chic.
3. Consider the Colors and Patterns
Beach weddings are the perfect occasion to play with colors and patterns. Light, airy colors like pastels, soft blues, pinks, and earth tones work beautifully in a beach setting, blending harmoniously with the natural surroundings. Floral patterns, tropical prints, or even subtle stripes can add a playful touch to your outfit.
Avoid wearing white or ivory, as these colors are traditionally reserved for the bride. Similarly, black can feel too heavy for a daytime beach wedding, so it’s better to choose something lighter and more vibrant.
4. Opt for Practical Footwear
One of the biggest challenges of dressing for a beach wedding is choosing the right footwear. Walking on sand can be tricky, so stilettos and pointy heels are generally not the best choice. Instead, opt for:
Wedges: Wedges offer height while providing stability on sand, making them a great option for women.
Sandals: Flat or low-heeled sandals are perfect for casual or beach formal dress codes. Look for dressy versions with embellishments or metallic finishes to elevate your look.
Espadrilles: These are a stylish and comfortable choice for both men and women, offering a more polished look than flip-flops but still beach-appropriate.
Barefoot Sandals: If the wedding is particularly relaxed or you know the bride and groom are embracing the barefoot vibe, consider barefoot sandals—a decorative, foot-hugging accessory that offers the feel of being barefoot with a touch of elegance.
5. Prepare for the Elements
The beach is a beautiful setting, but it can also present a few challenges like wind, sun, and possibly cooler evening temperatures. Here are a few tips to ensure you’re prepared:
Bring a Light Wrap or Shawl: If the wedding extends into the evening, temperatures can drop, especially by the water. A light wrap, shawl, or cardigan can keep you warm without detracting from your outfit.
Sun Protection: The sun can be intense on the beach, so don’t forget to wear sunscreen. A chic wide-brimmed hat or a pair of stylish sunglasses can also provide protection while adding to your beach wedding look.
Wind-Proof Your Outfit: Beach weddings are often breezy, so avoid lightweight dresses or skirts that could easily get blown around. Consider wearing a dress with a fitted waist or bring along some fashion tape to keep things in place.
6. Accessorize Thoughtfully
Accessories can elevate your beach wedding outfit, but less is often more in this setting. Here are a few ideas:
Jewelry: Choose simple, elegant pieces that won’t feel too heavy or out of place in a casual, outdoor setting. Think delicate necklaces, bangles, or earrings. Avoid heavy metals that could get hot in the sun.
Bags: A small clutch or crossbody bag is perfect for carrying essentials like sunscreen, lip balm, and sunglasses. Opt for a material that matches the beach vibe, like straw, canvas, or a light metallic finish.
Hair: Consider the wind when planning your hairstyle. Loose waves, braids, or a chic updo can keep your hair in place while complementing the beachy atmosphere.
7. Respect the Environment
Remember that you’re a guest at someone’s special day, and part of that means respecting the environment. If you’re wearing shoes, make sure they’re clean and sand-friendly. Avoid clothing with too many embellishments that could easily snag or get dirty. And if you’re using any products like sunscreen or bug spray, opt for reef-safe, eco-friendly versions to help protect the beach environment.
Conclusion
Attending a beach wedding is a unique experience that blends the joy of celebrating love with the beauty of the ocean. By choosing the right outfit, you can look stylish while staying comfortable in the sand and sun. Keep the dress code in mind, opt for breathable fabrics, and don’t forget practical footwear and accessories that suit the beach setting.
With these tips, you’ll be perfectly dressed to enjoy the day and celebrate the happy couple in style. Ready to plan your beach wedding look? Whether you need inspiration or advice on beach wedding attire, I’m here to help you create the perfect seaside ensemble!